“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can
completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve
never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and
actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that
will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many
disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful
happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share
in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you
are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do
they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough,
but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that
make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure,
jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around.
You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you
because they love you for who you are. The things that seem
insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become
invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever.
Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s
like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant.
Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or
didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you
through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In
their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you
find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never
interested you before become fascinating because you know they are
important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this
person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring
them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on
the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be
broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy
that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the
only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it
scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and
possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems
completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and
security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
―
Bob Marley
Monday, July 2, 2012
Friday, June 29, 2012
Her Fault Lies in Being a Woman
Why is always a woman blamed? Why is the respect and culture of a
society always associated with women? Where does the responsibility of a
man lie? This refers to the recent article published in newspaper in
support of Pandher which demanded for the punishment of girls whom he
used to bring in order to punish him who committed the heinous crime of
not only killing the innocent children but also cutting them into pieces
and thereafter throwing it in drains to hide his inhuman deeds. Pandher
is also charged with the rape and murder of not one but many girls whom
he used to bring to fulfill his voyeur desires. It's really horrible to
even think of such people who commit such crimes and more frightening
are those who stand in support of them. The same argument was also
written in favour of his servant koli who used to rape the dead bodies
and also eat them. The article tried to defend the monster in form of
human by saying that he should not be punished as he didn't commit the
crime intentionally but because of his disorder.
Shame on those who extend hands of support to such people who are in
fact not only the killers of innocent people but also the culture,
civilization and even the basic ethics of a society. We all take immense
interest whenever we hear something related to the story of Fiza and
Chand Mohammad and most of us end up with the famous sentence ' Man can
go away with this but how shameless was the woman dared to do such an
act'. Fiza's life, dignity and respect is tainted forever without
denying the fact that Chand is also spotted but Fiza is only forced to
suffer and will bear the pointing fingers throughout the life. Chand
Mohammad went back to his previous wife and can lead the life normally
after the whole episode. Yes, definitely the question arises that Fiza
can also folloow the same but if practically applied it never happens in
our society. The woman is blotted forever and a man is left for being a
man.
Don't dare to take for granted the biological weakness of woman in which God also did the partiality but respect her for her immense emotional strength which holds the mother earth.
If a woman can give birth to a man then she also knows how to take hold of that man and show him the right place. man and woman are the two wheels of our society and it won't be able to run smoothly if any one of the wheels is tried to be crushed in anyway. And always remember the proven truth "Only that society flourishes in which women are respected". A woman shouldn't always be blamed as a man is equally responsible for maintaining the digmity of a society and his indecent acts can affect it badly.
Don't dare to take for granted the biological weakness of woman in which God also did the partiality but respect her for her immense emotional strength which holds the mother earth.
If a woman can give birth to a man then she also knows how to take hold of that man and show him the right place. man and woman are the two wheels of our society and it won't be able to run smoothly if any one of the wheels is tried to be crushed in anyway. And always remember the proven truth "Only that society flourishes in which women are respected". A woman shouldn't always be blamed as a man is equally responsible for maintaining the digmity of a society and his indecent acts can affect it badly.
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Get Wrinkle Free Forehead Without Botox or Forehead Lift
It gives some natural tips to get rid of wrinkles without going under the scissors.
There are various treatments available in the cosmetic market for
removing forehead wrinkles and the most popular among them are botox and
forehead lift surgery. Though these treatments give an instant lift to
the personality of the person but, have various side effects attached to
them. Apart from this, these treatments are never ever lasting as the
formation of wrinkles keeps increasing with the growing age.
The best solution for such problems is the home remedies or the natural
solutions as they solve the problem without any side effects and always
have a lasting impact on the personality.
Apply Mixture of Vodka, Fennel Seeds and Honey
One of the best and proved treatments for wrinkled forehead is the application of a mixture of vodka, fennel seeds and honey on the affected areas or all over the face on a regular basis. For preparing this mixture, you need to mix two tablespoons vodka; a tablespoon fennel seeds and 2 teaspoons honey in a bowl and then leave it for three days. After that, you should strain the mixture and use it as a toner on the face.
Massage with Pure Castor Oil
You can massage the skin with pure castor oil to prevent wrinkles. The softening property of castor keeps the skin supple and hydrated and reduces the formation of wrinkles to a great extent.
Avoid Stepping Out in Mid Day Sun
If you want your forehead to be wrinkle free, you should always avoid stepping out in the mid day as the ultraviolet rays of the sun cause premature wrinkles.
Wash and moisturize face before going to bed
One should never forget to wash face before going to bed every night. Application of a moisturizing cream regularly on the washed face helps in reducing wrinkles and other aging marks very effectively.
Apply Juice of Green Pineapples and Apples
Regular application of the juice of green pineapples and apples on the face not only gives a clear skin but also helps in getting rid of various lines and wrinkles. It is considered to be one of the simplest and most effective home remedies for replenishing wrinkles.
For those who keep the cost effectiveness of the solution at the top, they can massage their face with any cream in the upward direction. It makes the skin firm and helps in the prevention of wrinkles. This remedy is more effective if tried during night as skin gets enough time to absorb the cream when the person sleeps.
Take a Balanced Diet
A proper balanced diet always helps in keeping the skin hydrated and thus away from wrinkles. Dieticians recommend zinc and calcium rich food to get rid of wrinkles on the face and especially on the forehead.
Apply Blended Cucumber
Cucumber also helps a lot in getting rid of wrinkles. For a proper use, one needs to blend some cucumbers and apply the residue left on the face after putting it through a sieve.
Try Facial Exercises
Apart from all this natural remedies, facial exercises are also a good option to slow the progression of forehead wrinkles without taking help of any cosmetic procedure.
So, these are some of the best and simplest natural ways to get rid of wrinkles or slow the process of aging without injecting botox or going under the scissors for forehead uplifting.
Apply Mixture of Vodka, Fennel Seeds and Honey
One of the best and proved treatments for wrinkled forehead is the application of a mixture of vodka, fennel seeds and honey on the affected areas or all over the face on a regular basis. For preparing this mixture, you need to mix two tablespoons vodka; a tablespoon fennel seeds and 2 teaspoons honey in a bowl and then leave it for three days. After that, you should strain the mixture and use it as a toner on the face.
Massage with Pure Castor Oil
You can massage the skin with pure castor oil to prevent wrinkles. The softening property of castor keeps the skin supple and hydrated and reduces the formation of wrinkles to a great extent.
Avoid Stepping Out in Mid Day Sun
If you want your forehead to be wrinkle free, you should always avoid stepping out in the mid day as the ultraviolet rays of the sun cause premature wrinkles.
Wash and moisturize face before going to bed
One should never forget to wash face before going to bed every night. Application of a moisturizing cream regularly on the washed face helps in reducing wrinkles and other aging marks very effectively.
Apply Juice of Green Pineapples and Apples
Regular application of the juice of green pineapples and apples on the face not only gives a clear skin but also helps in getting rid of various lines and wrinkles. It is considered to be one of the simplest and most effective home remedies for replenishing wrinkles.
For those who keep the cost effectiveness of the solution at the top, they can massage their face with any cream in the upward direction. It makes the skin firm and helps in the prevention of wrinkles. This remedy is more effective if tried during night as skin gets enough time to absorb the cream when the person sleeps.
Take a Balanced Diet
A proper balanced diet always helps in keeping the skin hydrated and thus away from wrinkles. Dieticians recommend zinc and calcium rich food to get rid of wrinkles on the face and especially on the forehead.
Apply Blended Cucumber
Cucumber also helps a lot in getting rid of wrinkles. For a proper use, one needs to blend some cucumbers and apply the residue left on the face after putting it through a sieve.
Try Facial Exercises
Apart from all this natural remedies, facial exercises are also a good option to slow the progression of forehead wrinkles without taking help of any cosmetic procedure.
So, these are some of the best and simplest natural ways to get rid of wrinkles or slow the process of aging without injecting botox or going under the scissors for forehead uplifting.
Sunday, February 19, 2012
Love And Sex, Are These Related?
Are you sexually exploited on a daily basis? You can’t deny as he has
the right to sex according to the marital bond and even if you have the
right to deny, how much are you able to actually use that? It’s such an
irony that sexual fulfillment from both the sides does not assure of a
happy married life.
Heard by many and also experienced by some, most people believe in this
and get confused when the circumstances faced are entirely different.
So, is it right to say that a happy sex life signifies a happy married
life? A woman bows down in front of the urges of the man as he can
promise for anything to get his desire fulfilled but the behavior in the
later part of the day forces her to hate herself and tries to find the
reason for her permission everyday.
A woman is emotionally weaker and tries to find the love
in the physical relation with her man; however, she fails to
distinguish the act of mere satisfaction from that of real love. Yes, it
is very hard to know the difference but if pondered over a little, it
is an easy task. Does he always show the same doting behavior or he
displays a drastic change in his behavior in general? After getting the
answer, and if is a big yes then we are left with nothing but a bitter
feeling of helplessness. This is not a case of being educated or not,
but a need to strengthen our emotional stature which becomes the
weakness of a woman. The depiction of false love for the fulfillment of
one’s desires is also a kind of exploitation. It not only exploits us
but the realization of the truth also tortures us. It’s better to
understand the truth of your love today rather than going under the
knife everyday.
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