In the past one decade, the number of people preferring to
be single has increased drastically. Here, we are not discussing about the
those who are divorced or living alone due to other unavoidable circumstance, but
those who love the status of being
single and enjoy the freedom offered by it.
So, let’s not confuse these happy singletons with people who
are feeling alone or isolated from others. These people certainly live alone,
but neither do they neither feel lonely nor are they isolated. They love
spending time with friends and do social work as per their availability.
This happy single world reveals the affluence, social
security as well as cultural tolerance. So, what’s the reason behind this
booming culture of going single? By living alone as singles, people accomplish
all the modern values like freedom and complete check on one’s own time and
space. It can be called as a search for that solitude which allows a person to
socialize on his or her own terms without any kind of interference. The other
reason can be they are saved from sharing space with any wrong person with whom
they can’t go along well.
The drastic increase in the number of people going single
can be mainly due to the reason that the present generation is better trained
as well as equipped for that. Living alone in your house can keep you connected
with everyone as social media is always at your help.
Society generally consider singletons as people looking for
a match, however it’s not always true as they prefer enjoying the freedom of
the moment than waiting for a person who will obviously restrict the free bird
attitude to some extent.
So, it’s only one’s interdependence which makes the
independence possible. Singletons get a happier place to live today as now we
are more socially connected with each other even while living alone.
When I was reading your article, one feeling is working in me. How wonderful is freedom? Like a bird one may fly on his or her sky.
ReplyDeleteAs a house wife, i have to look after , all my family, I do it with full of pleasure, coz we three me , my husband and only son, love each other , think for one , another. No complecation, can't work, coz we live a very simple and peace full life. It's a real picture of my family.
ReplyDeleteBut what about mind? some times tired mind need a little space , which is only for me. May be every house wife has this desire, but setuation can't give me to live a life as my wish..........I have to adjust for our family, those who genuinely love her family she has to do this little sacrifice,
One emptyness knock me on and on, why and what for ?,,,,,,,,,don't realize not yet,
But living a single life, with full of freedom is a dream for me. If I need a little space, it will be granted , but I am aware of my duty, so in this life, I will nurish this dream in my mind, rest of my life
That's true, a desire for complete freedom is somewhere buried in everyone.
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