Showing posts with label feelings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label feelings. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Whom to Blame for a Divorce?

It's surprising as well as shocking to see the shooting rate of divorce cases in the society. There used to be a time when it was considered a tabooed aspect of one's life, but nowadays we have got used to it. And on top of that, there is not even the shortage of such people who feel proud in increasing the numbers of such cases in their lives. It's quite obvious that a person will file a divorce only if the marriage is not happy. With the modern age, people should have become more understanding with increased power of tolerance in their relationships, but the river seems to be flowing in the opposite direction.

Whose fault is that? The fault of technology or the fault of money. The fault of lifestyle or the fault of culture. In my opinion, none of these reasons can be set as curtains behind which such cases prop up. No and an absolute no! Because all the things mentioned above are feeling less and created by man himself. How could the owner be controlled by the things he created himself?

Yes, the rising graph of such cases held the people responsible themselves in 90% of the cases. Marriage, a bond for the permanent life, that's what mentioned at the time of marriage, is made a temporary relationship. Man made the money not the vice versa so, why he is getting into its trap and forgetting his roots. And it would not be wrong to blame those celebrities making records in the number of marriages and media waiting for the news of their divorce and spicy stories about the next marriage. What example do they set for us? Do you think a person not satisfied with his relationships can ever be satisfied with the power of money? Better, we common people look deep inside ourselves and understand the resolution for this. And this applies for both man and woman.

A man can become pregnant and a woman can become a father in this scientific world, but the instincts can't ever be changed. Divorce should be the last option as even Bible also stands against it. Not only mental depression and shock to the divorcees, but the badly affected part is the children they own as they become estranged and insecure in many ways any security be provided by the court.

The lack of commitment is the root cause of the increasing rate of divorces. Who doesn't fight and which place and person of the world is devoid of misunderstandings? But, it's the love, respect, tolerance for each other's feelings and emotions which keeps a relationship intact and forever green and going.

Sunday, July 29, 2012

What's the Religion of Terrorists?

It discusses the benefits taken by the unsocial elements because of the divided feelings between Hindus and Muslims which encourages the acts of terrorism. 
It seems that India  is flaunting its spirit of secularism in a telling manner by spreading the scourge of terrorism rather than by uniting its citizens. First, it was the Muslims who were identified for it; they were criticised by the Hindus; now Hindus have been identified for it and it has become the talk of the town. So, leaving the controversies behind, an outcome emerges crystal clear - culprits obtain in both the religions whose primary aim is to terrorise the Indians. Hindus blame the Muslims and Muslims blame the Hindus but the ultimate sufferer always is the home of both the communities, viz, India. What do you call this? Should it be called secularism of religion or the secularism of division, if it can be so called?

Ever since the Jaipur blasts, newspapers started highlighting the names of culprits who were involved in the crime; never did I see a person showing his disappointment over the deteriorating mindset of the Indians, though. The controversies always remained confined to a particular religion. A few days back, a finger was pointed at the tenets of Islam and even the newspapers published debates on the mindset of Muslims. Now everyone’s attention is riveted on the teachings of Hinduism. How dare we call such culprits humans? Yes, they are not humans who dare to snatch the most precious gift of the almighty to us, viz, our life.
Why don’t we join hands against terrorism instead of joining hands against Islam or Hinduism? Yes, those people don’t belong to any religion and the only thing they believe in or worship is terrorism. Why do we blame each other? We find black sheep in every community so it is better that the spot is got rid of; it should not be allowed to pervade the entire community.
Whether one is a Hindu or a Muslim, the crime shouldn’t be associated with the religion the culprit belongs to since both don’t deserve to be included in any religion. The culprits only follow the religion of division and their aim is to terrorise and divide us Indians.
The need of the hour is to unite the Indians and not just any particular religion, against the web of terrorism. Our mother is the same; then how can we be different? We till the same soil and seek the same enlightenment but why should we differ when it comes to preserving and protecting the integrity of the nation? We are one community. Different are those who try to divide us and kill us. Rather than pointing fingers at each other, let’s outcast those who defame our existence. The spot of terrorism can’t be eliminated until we come together on a common platform and prove that before being Muslims or Hindus, we belong to the supreme community of Indians. 

Monday, July 2, 2012

!! Love !!

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever.

Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
Bob Marley