Showing posts with label MAN. Show all posts
Showing posts with label MAN. Show all posts

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Made in Heaven, Broken in Courts

The husband-wife relationship is formed on their understanding and also sometimes broken on their misunderstanding.

In spite of the web of terrorism and the cancer

of corruption, there always exists one bond which keeps us together on this earth. And it is the bond of relationship which makes our existence meaningful the most important chain of relationship which every human being shares with the other. But out of all relationships, the bond which always outstands is shared between a man and a woman and is thus called man-woman relationship. From the time immemorial, it holds the primary importance and we relate it to the story of Adam and Eve.

A man-woman relationship can be framed between a daughter and her father or a son and his mother. These man-woman relationships can be categorized as of one blood. But the sweetest of all and on the basis of which this planet exists is shared between a husband and a wife. Two beings out of completely two different worlds come together and make a beautiful world of their own.

However much the world fights over the rights of a husband or a wife but at the end it is they themselves who can bring a resolution to it. The fight can only be stopped by the mutual understanding among themselves. The day a husband keeps himself in the shoes of a wife and considers the miseries and expectations of a woman and a wife does the same for her husband, the fight will automatically come to an end.

It's not the legal rights which matter in a relationship but the respect for each other's positions and thus emotions. No court of the world can break a relationship on its papers till the flow of understanding and respect continues.

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Stressing Out- Different For Man And Woman

Many ages have passed and will keep on moving with the passage of time, but the mystery of a man-woman relationship still pertains. There are many mysterious qualities on both the sides and this mystery makes the bond more unique. If love is always evident in this, then also the conflicts increasing day by day can  not denied.
The most common cause of conflict is the communication barrier caused due to the degree of communication used by both the parties. A woman loves to talk and express her feelings whereas a man dwells in himself if something disturbs his mind. Not only this, he actually hates the narration and thinks it as a source of irritation. No, I am not saying that the man is wrong; neither can I say that the woman’s part is not correct. Both have got their own behavior to tackle with various situations so, none can be blamed.  If something stresses a woman, she relieves herself by discussing it with her trusted friends as it provides her a sense of love and support. A man believes in finding solutions for which he prefers a separate cave for sometime and stresses out by watching television or reading a newspaper and thus involving himself in the world problems.
We forget that the cause of this fight is the natural behavior of both the sides. If both man and woman understand this, then they can easily come out of their stressful situations without depressing others. A man needs to listen to the woman as she needs to vent out to release her stress and the woman should give some space to the man for some time as he comes back to the normal life after finding the solution.