Why is always a woman blamed? Why is the respect and culture of a
society always associated with women? Where does the responsibility of a
man lie? This refers to the recent article published in newspaper in
support of Pandher which demanded for the punishment of girls whom he
used to bring in order to punish him who committed the heinous crime of
not only killing the innocent children but also cutting them into pieces
and thereafter throwing it in drains to hide his inhuman deeds. Pandher
is also charged with the rape and murder of not one but many girls whom
he used to bring to fulfill his voyeur desires. It's really horrible to
even think of such people who commit such crimes and more frightening
are those who stand in support of them. The same argument was also
written in favour of his servant koli who used to rape the dead bodies
and also eat them. The article tried to defend the monster in form of
human by saying that he should not be punished as he didn't commit the
crime intentionally but because of his disorder.
Shame on those who extend hands of support to such people who are in
fact not only the killers of innocent people but also the culture,
civilization and even the basic ethics of a society. We all take immense
interest whenever we hear something related to the story of Fiza and
Chand Mohammad and most of us end up with the famous sentence ' Man can
go away with this but how shameless was the woman dared to do such an
act'. Fiza's life, dignity and respect is tainted forever without
denying the fact that Chand is also spotted but Fiza is only forced to
suffer and will bear the pointing fingers throughout the life. Chand
Mohammad went back to his previous wife and can lead the life normally
after the whole episode. Yes, definitely the question arises that Fiza
can also folloow the same but if practically applied it never happens in
our society. The woman is blotted forever and a man is left for being a
man.
Don't dare to take for granted the biological weakness of woman in
which God also did the partiality but respect her for her immense
emotional strength which holds the mother earth.
If a woman can give birth to a man then she also knows how to take
hold of that man and show him the right place. man and woman are the two
wheels of our society and it won't be able to run smoothly if any one
of the wheels is tried to be crushed in anyway. And always remember the
proven truth "Only that society flourishes in which women are
respected". A woman shouldn't always be blamed as a man is equally
responsible for maintaining the digmity of a society and his indecent
acts can affect it badly.
